Ok im trying to make sense of what just happened.

Wfe already told MIL she is NOT going to see OM at all this week. The fighs fom last week between them were equal parts solid infomaion fom facebook and mind reading from me when I noticed it looked like wife was ignoring someones messages

So today the whole day wife is messaging while I am qt work setting up the new business. She is with D3 plqying at the park. I noticed her messages were not as chirpy and when I asked what was wrong she said nothing but I know she was lieing.

She messag s me several times asking when I am coming home befause she was cooking dinner. After dinner she is lookint really down and messaging on her phone. Messaging app shows OM is online too.

Then I look ovr to her and ask whats wrong in a lovint concerned tone. She burst into tears and says pls dont look at me now...as if me looking is what is causeing he to cry. I looked away but couldnt do it. It was killing me. If this guy is hurting my baby I would drive a stick through his nut sack.

I knelt down infont of her and started rubbing her feet. I said baby I hate to see you like this. She said I just took my meds and they are kicking in now. I coninued rubbing her feet and worked up into her pantsvare rubbed her calves and up to her thighs. She begab cryint more.

She said u never rubbed my feet when I was pregnant. I said I am sorry that is what you recall of that time period. I remember rubbing much more than just your feet. She smiled.

I move onto rubbing her shoulders then leaned in and kissed her in the cheeck, she leaned in and muzzled her face into my neck and moaned. I kept kissing her neck and cheeks and her head, and she kept on making loving purring noises. She really needed affection. I am so horny at this point that I wanted o tea her clothes off!

I turned turner ino q flirtint moment and told her that her highs felt so warm and I couldn continue this torture. She smiled but looked a little bummed. I dont know why I stopped. I guess I need an end to OM before I can b e sexual wih her. We hugged a deep lovers hug and she kissed and rubbed her face and nose into my neck. I almost creamed my pants honstly.

Then I pulled back ane said lets to bed, we have to be up in a few hours. I was hinting to see if she would come sleep in our bed. She said you go ahead I am not sleepy yet. So i asked her it she is going to be ok, and told her to come gt me if she needed me.

Now laying in bed wondering what that was all about. Was it OM? Was it regret or remorse? Did she miss my affection? She certainly seemed to realy enjoy me kissing her all over and feeling her up. Did she want me to make a move? Why is she not going to see OM at all this week?

So many questions and no answers....


Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017