So we finally had a talk last night. She was upset about everything and I told her that I was no longer interested in living with a woman who would not behave like a married woman. If she wasn't interested in doing so then I wanted her out. I was very calm, and she then went through every emotional reaction you could think of ending in, "fine I won't see OM anymore and we can live together in misery forever."
I wasn't exactly kicking her out just telling her I wasn't ok with what was going on. This morning she was looking at rentals on her phone, and has been acting mean to everyone in the house. I'm just tired of being the plan B, safety net, etc. Not trying to be mean I'm just stating I'm not up for ths anymore.
Feeling like I should just file the separation papers and move this along. I'm just exhausted today and needed to post.
