Haven't read the book but Hold Me Tight seems interesting. Can you about how that helped in your sitch? From the comments, description and review seems like it may be geared to situations where both spouses want to work on M.. Thnks
Not sure if it has helped in my sitch - yet. But what I've read really seems to line up with what is broken in our relationship - being emotionally connected, how that can be broken, how to build it. We have talked about it in our MC sessions and some of what our counselor is doing with us is EFT.
I'd agree that application of what is in the book requires both partners wanting to work on the marriage. If that is not the case I still think it is worthwhile for the LBS to read it.
In my relationship W and I have learned during sitch that in some ways we were emotionally connected. Not in enough ways. Believe this is what is the underlying issue in our sitch.
