Haven't read the book but Hold Me Tight seems interesting. Can you about how that helped in your sitch? From the comments, description and review seems like it may be geared to situations where both spouses want to work on M.. Thnks


Me-48,W-51
M-22,T-24
S- 18,16,9
Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date
Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch
Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only
Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork