Haven't read the book but Hold Me Tight seems interesting. Can you about how that helped in your sitch? From the comments, description and review seems like it may be geared to situations where both spouses want to work on M.. Thnks
Me-48,W-51 M-22,T-24 S- 18,16,9 Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork