Subguy I have to say I thought that too.

I did ask him a couple weeks ago and he said 'of course I want to hear about the kids' but I had a feeling he said that more so he wouldn't sound like a jerk for saying that he didn't (can't bear the guilt) of hearing about the kids.

The truth is it doesn't seem to matter to him. I thought I was encouraging him to stay involved in the kids' lives but it doesn't seem so. And I thought its my duty as a mom to tell my kids' father what's happening to them regardless because he is their father. I guess that could be pressure.


Maybe I am doing the kids a disservice ?

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home