Well, she is back in our bed tonight. I do understand the S running hot/cold. I do understand that W is confused. I do understand that I don't understand much. But, does her flip flopping seem like it is happening way too much? She is either a tactical genius or so confused that she has no idea what to do. Have I ever said that I am confused?
In terms of frequency of flip flopping I don't know. If your W is like mine believe she is confused, hurting, trying to figure things out. Not tactically playing games with me.