~need advice with going dark~

[MrBond]

YOu concentrate alot on "MLC" as if it's all your W's issues. What has your married life been like? Give us your marital history and that will help.

MLC is caused by certain life changing triggers. Loss of a job, getting older, empty nest, etc. And there are usually signs that lead up to it. The more detail you give, the better.