You are correct that PMA is so hard to do when you are hurting so much. Fake it till you make it, I guess. I have a really hard time with PMA when I am around my wife. Just keep trying.

My W also changes her attitude fairly quickly. There is a recent post/reply on my thread about this that I think helps explain it. Head over there to read it. Take care and I hope things turn around for you.

M 37 W 36
T22
M14
D8
D4
8/2012 distanced
BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.)
W move out date: June 8th.