Thanks everyone. Obviously this is all fresh (again) so I'm going through the whole gamut of emotions - work really stunk today. I know each day will get easier to deal with and as that happens, I'll be able to begin focusing on improving things for myself and everything else well, we'll just see where that goes - I can only control what I'm going to do.
One thing I don't think I've mentioned all along, and I'm curious if anyone has any thoughts about it, is that my W is a substance abuse counselor who works daily with clients in individual and group settings. She sees all different types of conflict each day and what always baffles me is that she can work with her clients through their problems and to find ways to solve them but can't or refuses with me.
Years ago, I used to always say, "Don't treat me like one of your clients" if she started to analyze something I was doing and get clinical on me - we used to joke about it. There's times now where I wish she would do it on us simply because you would think she has the tools to work through a lot of these issues.
Anyway, I just find it interesting.
M: 29 W: 29 T: 12 years M: 4 years Discovered OM: 02/10/12 ILYBNILWY: 03/01/12 W Moves Out: 05/04/12 Reconciliation Starts: 09/06/12 In-house Separation (Again): 03/09/13
