Help & Advice needed please Thread 2

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Okay, listen very carefully.

YOU cannot control someone else's emotions. YOU cannot "warm" your W to you unless she wants to.

Also, SHE is not cold to you. You just PERCEIVE she is. She will tell you that she is not. YOU can control this. YOU control how YOU feel. YOU allow this feeling of coldness to come over you. YOU have to learn to cope with this. Think of her like one of those people you see muttering to themselves on the street. If they came to you and started calling you names or ignore you, you wouldn't give it a second thought. YOU are the one who empowers the other person to have that control over you.

That's why you GAL to gain back your self-esteem. Strengthen yourself and it won't bother you.

This is excellent advice thanks mr Bond.