I think it's great to share the highs of the kids with H! Before BD, I would text H pics of the kids and things they do all day. Slowly I have stopped doing that. My goal is to have a great R with him to co-parent. However, I needed to detach first. My H is a very good dad. He thanks me when I send things, videos and such. We tell each other funny things the kids do. But right now, I have realized that I need to lay off communication with him for me. Until I can truely detach, I have to. I'm even debating having him come to the big ultrasound next week. Just thinking about him being there makes me tear up. I just think of the happy place we were at with the last 2, and I just think I want my kids and my mom & sis there. Just happy. I have a week to think about it.
I love your attitude about your kids!!! I feel exactly the same way!
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
