On a more positive note, had an incredible day yesterday! Closed on my new business, paperwork signed and have the keys.
Good deal, congrats!!
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Then I got a nessage from W who was at OM and didnt know it was closing day. I keep her out of the loop a little so she can feel left out.
It's fine if you're doing this as part of "going dim", but keep in mind that if you're going dim and withholding info then you're doing it for you, not as a tactic to make your W "feel left out". Also it needs to be consistent behavior, and it needs to be a 180. IE, if you were short on sharing info with W in the M, then doing it now is just "more of the same" behavior.
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Those are the words of afirmation that she had been withholding.
Good, celebrate internally and continue with your DB'ing. Don't get overly excited or develop any expectations about what it means.
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Anyway, turns ou her and OM had yet another fight. Two fights in 3 days. Found out when her girlfriend posted on fb asking wife if the argument had 'quietened down' after her friend supposedly left there on thursday night (left om house).
Egads, how many 2x4's have you gotten smacked with for snooping?
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Wife looked at her phone a few times during the evening and looked a little mad and acted like she was ignoring someones messages.
And how many more for mind-reading?
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No wife is not coming because I havent invited her. She can spend a saturday night on her own for the first time maybe in her life
Again, going dim is a valid approach if that's what you feel you need in your sitch, but it's about you, it's not about punishing W.
