Sitting in the back seat!

[Occy01]

Thanks for replying. Luke, understand what you mean...

I really would let your W tell them - she started the problem - and has to deal with the pain she is causing.

But I wonder is it not better to show a ' united front' for the children? I also wonder that even though its her decision, did she start the problem? I mean, we are both responsible for where we are right now... Even though W thinks its all me. ;-)
As with painting it positively, have thought about going with the " you'll live closer to all your friends" approach, as I live in the forest, 8 km from their school, friends etc

Mr. Bond. Thanks for your reply. I have DB and DR at home and am in the process of reading DR... Any help/ advice is warmly welcomed!!