Wife said she was done!

[Maritimer]

It was my youngest 1st birthday and we had a PJ party. Everyone had lots of fun including the wife and when the last guest left she became cold again. Why the fluctuation in behavior, I mean it takes effort to go out of you way to change attitudes that quick. Sometimes I can see the old wife I fell in love with , then bam, someone who is not very nice to me at all.

Her separation enabler friend brought over a real estate sheet of a home for sale next to where she lives and place on my bed. I never let her see that I was upset but I just had to go to a buddys house to vent and gain perspective. Guess I still have a ways to detach. Still trying my hardest to be happy and supportive of the move when I don’t want it to happen. This PMA is challenging when all you want is for your family to be together again.

Still continuing with my 180’s for myself and the boys, wishful thinking that she notices and would want to work it out again.. I guess that is expectations. Need to work on that.

Time, patients, consistency of 180’s and a PMA!