sub guy that is a wonderful baby step :-) And you handled it so well! You sound like you are getting into a good place. Keep going with that momentum.
And bravo for your D. How mature and compassionate she sounds. Feel proud. :-)
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home