I don't know how to kick her out. She seems to be in a EA with a guy in the village and I tell her to go to him on virtually a daily basis but she says that she wouldn't want to live with him (he lives with his parents) and how do I force her to do it?
Not sure of the laws in whatever country you live now, but you probably cannot force her to move out. If it comes down to things not changing and you feel you've got to stop the sitch, if it were me I would be inclined to move back to my home country with the kids and leave her in her home country. Not sure what legal issues would be involved with that either, so you might consider consulting with a lawyer.
[quote]Sometimes I think that this living hell will never end.
It probably won't unless you do something about it. Sounds like she's content with her cake-eating.
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I've failed, dismally, with the 180. I sometimes think that I'm just too passionate. I felt so at ease for a few days when I was doing it and yet, for some reason, I have struggled to keep to it. (Perhaps because I don't have a solid support system?)
You'll learn more about this when you get the book, but it's not "the" 180. There should be multiple 180's. You should do 180's on every fault you had in the marriage.
