jp, things got much better for me when I realized that our sitch was a 50/50 blame like most are. I accepted that I needed to let go of my W and let her work on her things. I accepted I had my stuff to work at and improve and grow. I accepted that no matter what the outcome I will have a happy and fulfilling life. I accepted that W and I getting a D is a real possibility and I must also think about a plan B.
This is a goal, can't imagine it right now, at all. I know to move forward I have to...
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
