I know in the grand scheme of things, this is meaningless, but it is very big for me at this moment.

Just wrenched 12 months of our credit card bills out of H because he's been asking for reimbursement from my company for the webhosting that got set up on our family credit card. In the past he did not share the credit card bills with me unless he had a specific question. So I'm seeing them for the first time.

12/5/12 there was a $250 purchase at a sex toy/lingerie shop.

I can tell you that was not me, nor was it for me.

So he is cheating. And he really suxxx. I'll feel sad about it right now and maybe a few more minutes, and then I guess I'll get back to what I'm doing.

Nice that he spent more on this crap than his kids at Christmas though.

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.