That boundary you set sounds awfully like control and manipulation
I have to disagree.
The boundary that Spartan set was about taking control of his life, regardless of what his W is doing.
As far as manipulation, the reality is that she has filed for D. Doing things with the children separatly, is part of that reality and allowing her to see and feel that is in no way manipulating.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
