This reminds me of what MWD says, to reevaluate your sitch. What are you doing that's making her reconsider reconciling? Figure it out! Cuz it's working.
Also take it as a lesson. NO MORE BACKSLIDING!! NO MORE REACTING!!! THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK!!!
You are learning to communicate in a healthy way. The strategies you learn now will carry on to your relationship. Be mature. Keep your mouth sh&t before you say something that can set you back. Give it 24hrs so that you can communicate with clarity. Practice with us, then talk to her.
I would also suggest giving her a time. Can we talk about what you said tomorrow at 4? This I got from 25mlc. That way you don't surprise her ;-)
Continue to grow (up) ;-) I confess, I was a reactor. Lashing out like a child if things didn't go my way. I've learned a lot and recently impressed H. He was floored that I didn't react to a sitch I would've normally created chaos.
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017
