Thanks, longrun. It seems obvious in hindsight, but that was hard to go through with.
She dropped our S off today, and seemed to not want to talk. I brought up a couple of practical issues relating to S's schedule, and it seemed to help ease her into an interaction. She just seems to be so distrustful and cold toward me that I'm having a hard time visualizing this changing anytime soon. My coach is suggesting positive co-parent centered interactions, so I guess I should try to brainstorm possibilities in this area. I feel like she is acutely sensitive to me trying something like this, and attributing it to tactics to get her back. I certainly don't want her to feel pressured to interact with me.
H: 38 xW: 38 M: 16 T: 18 S: 9 BD: 2/2012 W moved out 4/2012 D: 11/2012