All the discussions from the summer about being a lighthouse for your WAS/MLCer are so true.

Although my sitch hasn't improved, H has mentioned that I believe in him and know he's a good person. I didn't think he was paying attention, but in every email I'd send, I'd put something in about him being a good man and wanting him to be happy.

And even through the fog, he's hearing it, although he's still choosing to stay with an OW who treats him like cr@p. Most of the time he thinks he deserves it, but every once in a while he wonders if he does deserve better. And that's when he remembers what I've said to him all along.

No matter what happens, I can be sure that I did the best I could. I can't save H from his depression and can only hope that he finds his way out.

M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13