I have no idea what to do. I dont want to just come out and ask her.. What if she is not sleeping with this gay person.
I really dont now at this point.
Since you have no idea or plan on what to do with your snooping information, why are you snooping? Can't you see how it's only hurting you? Making you imagine the worst, and making your mind go crazy?
If you're ready to confront her, snoop it up and be prepared to end the M.
If you're not ready to confront her and possibly end the M, DON"T SNOOP!
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
