Looking for a little advice and support

[Grizz]

I guess my thought would be that if this is something that you really want to do and W initially agreed to it, then I would not scrap it this soon. I would give it at least one more try before saying anything. When/if you do bring it up, do it calmly and don't come off as the a-hole H. She is just looking for things to reinforce her decisions. Maybe something like," I can see you aren't really ready for this. Lets give it a break and maybe address it again in a few weeks". Try to keep the peace. Good luck.