They are not hearing the same things we hear. Early on in my sitch the mc asked how long we had been together. H answered 4 years. C asked again you have been together 4 years? He said yes again. We had been together over 9 years married 4.
Finding 1 or 2 close confidants has been huge for me, those two people have helped me so much in being comfortable around the other friends and neighbors that I am not as open with.
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13
