Sexless marriage. H Left. Now retrouvaille in 3wks

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You're not questioning for any reason other than to give him the opportunity to talk and you to listen.

Agree. My questions I asked my H 4 months ago were stupid. I asked if I had changed (duh), why he married me (uh duh) etc. Of course I answered these questions few months later, on my own.

I asked because I had somebody very close to me who was going through the same thing at that time and her H just came back to her (then he left again only 2 weeks later) so I thought I could use what she suggested me that I'd ask. Big mistake. Everyone's situation is different and it was silly of me to ask my H exact same questions she asked her H when our situations were completely different. But again, this was when I was still in my desperate phase so I just wanted to do everything anything that sounded good.