It's never enough for them, Grr, or in my H's case, sometimes too much. It's like the story of Goldilocks, except they never find the "just right" scenario for their marriages ... they never will until they start thinking clearly. By then, when some will want to get back with the LBS, the damage is irrepairably done to the spouse and the children if there are any.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim