Sweetie, you are controlling but it's good that you're willing to admit it because now you can fix it. (I was too) That should be your focus right now, letting people be in charge of their lives, we all deserve that.

You know it's help when someone asks you to help, otherwise it's control.

What are your fears?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss