Yes a therapist. He is usually the decision maker so this is definitely new to his personality and he is definitely struggling.
Yes I have to work on my fears. I don't have any other option. I need it for both of us and our children. I have to listen To him. I can't respond with anything as any response I have leads him to thinking I am controlling. He has made the comment several times that he needs to finally make a decision once in his life, not to let me the controlling one make a decision. I will admit I am controlling but I never saw it as controlling as more as me bring helpful, however that's not how it was perceived.
H:37 W:37 M:10 years D:7&5 Bomb:9/7/12. H moves out H moved back 12/23/12-not going well Retrouvaille 1/18 H moving out again 3/14
