((((((GTO))))))))

This too shall pass. Please try (I know it is hard), like Tori said, to let yourself feel your emotions and let them go through you. Accept that you feel low, cry it out and then continue doing what YOU need to do to get your PMA back. All of this is so hard. Know that and keep fighting the good fight. You can do this.

Can we take something positive out of this maybe? I was thinking that this doesn't seem so negative...

he didn't want us to get into arguments where the boys were concerned as we were never ones to fight/argue so why start now.

If you can work as partners with regards to the boys, that seems to be a very positive step for where things are right now.

Hang on there GTO. You are not alone.


TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home