These conversations are backsliding nothing more. Sometimes I start them sometimes he does.yes I want answers and I know I am not getting them , but I just can't stop. I am going mentally crazy.

He just came home and said he wants to talk to me. He said " listen this goes beyond you, it's all about me". He said" I can't make a decision for the life of me. I can't make a decision about us, about work about nothing ". He said I need to see someone I can't live like this anymore.

I have never been in this position of being uncertain of everything in my life so I am struggling with this greatly. I know I need to leave him alone and figure this out.


H:37
W:37
M:10 years
D:7&5
Bomb:9/7/12. H moves out
H moved back 12/23/12-not going well
Retrouvaille 1/18
H moving out again 3/14