No I didn't. We struggled with this for literally 20 years. All the typical stuff: something is wrong with you, something is wrong with me, I'm not trying to connect emotionally, I'm not doing enough to speak her love language. All the typical stuff and I was very angry and bitter....but I always attracted to her (and sometimes I was angry that I was)
There could be so many, many things and unfortunately only he can tell you. Perhaps he's embarrassed that he's been watching porn and masturbating. Maybe he's been experiencing ED.
All I can suggest is going to counseling on your own and hopefully he might follow.
