That thought has crossed my mind a 1000x and honestly I don't think so, however I don't know for sure. It's a question I am asked all the time. I often question why this is so hard for him to move forward with any form of intimacy and his answer is always " it been so long it's Just awkward and werid. I am not attracted to you like that anymore"
This rejection has done a lot of damage to him and he is very sensitve, but it is very hard for me to understand how he cant let some of this go and try to work on the M. so thinking there is someone else is valid.
L'l since you were on the same Side of my H, did it get to the point that you weren't attracted to your W anymore after all the years of rejection? I assume it could definitely get no that point. Again I am tryin to wrap my head around it and I can't.
H:37 W:37 M:10 years D:7&5 Bomb:9/7/12. H moves out H moved back 12/23/12-not going well Retrouvaille 1/18 H moving out again 3/14