I hear you. This weekend confirmed that my H is still in contact with OW. I knew he probably was, but was lying to me.

But, I am not going to react to the emotions. I feel done. But my plan is to truely detach. Be friendly, but for my emotional health, no more hanging out & talking like friends. Because all it does right now is hurt me. I'm the one allowing that.

I get being frustrated that they are "moving on" and you feel stuck. But let's face it, neither of us would be good to anyone right now. Focus on you and what you need.

M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D