I can see her going to the other side of the bed would be exasperating. Since your BD in November has your W initiated? Does your W do something different after ML if she initiates?
I guess I need to go back and re-read what MWD said about ML. I probably went thru that part of the book quickly as it has been 6 months since W and I have ML
Just curious if you are talking to a DB coach and what they would say about what is going on with you and W with ML.