Looking for a little advice and support

[Grizz]

You are correct about not being able to bring up depression. I made that mistake early on. Only after 1 month prior her saying that she was either stressed or depressed as the reason for her distancing. But when I asked larer on and eluded to depression she got really angry and said "I am NOT depressed, I am unhappy in this marriage!" Best to stear clear of talking with her about this. It doesn't seem to go well.