It's hard to have someone we love deeply hurt us so much.
I find that as his and my journey go on, my idea of what a salvageable M changes. You think you'll never make it past a certain point, then you do, again and again.
No doubt she won't find a better H. There may come a point where she even realizes this, but that is only half the battle. No matter how wonderful you are, it still doesn't fix her issues.
I am also finding that it is difficult to imagine how we will feel when we reach a certain point or as various scenarios play out. I think we don't really know till we're in the actual moment.
Congrats on quitting smoking! A definite positive for your life no matter what!
Hang in there J - it is a crazy ride that continually surprises me
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
