Originally Posted By: 19941994
Im lbs - 12 yrs

We are in a 3 week no contact period

1-contact.... if i understand i wait until she initiates and wants to talk

2-i have made my feelings very clear - she's "thinking"

How do i manage and navigate the first real talk since her move out?

3- i believe counselling and forgiveness can repair our life - how do i bring this up

4-how do i get her to open up and talk about her missing needs

Thx

(Book in the mail)

Any advice?


1 - good idea - let her contol the contact
2 - OK
3 - I wouldn't
4 - Actions speak louder than Words. Speak to her through actions. Stop trying to FIX this, you are not going to talk your way out of this.


Me-70, D37,S36