Okay, so here's a question for anyone whose been following my sitch. My W has been acting cold toward any attempts on my part to be more friendly. I'm okay with that. She does not trust me, and my history of being hot and cold with her will take awhile to walk back from.
So, there is a mutual friend in town,and I am throwing a party so our friends can all get together with him. I didn't invite her. This was hard for me to do. I wanted to invite her, but felt she would see that as using our mutual friend as an excuse to see her (manipulating and pursuing). By not inviting her, though, I risk making her feel like I am trying to exclude her from our common community of friends.
Was this the right choice?
H: 38 xW: 38 M: 16 T: 18 S: 9 BD: 2/2012 W moved out 4/2012 D: 11/2012
