H and I had an interesting conversation and I hope someone can help me out. I feel like I should be able to understand but I can't.
He told me he doesn't want a D, but he just can't work on the marriage right now. He needs to clear his head hence why hes moving Out.
I asked him what is holding him back from a D he said the kids and the fear of starting over.

Knowing that he is only in this for the kids and fear, do we have hope?

How can he say he doesn't want a D but not willing to work on it.
I feel that I am a broken record here. I am really losing my Mind over this. The confusion is killing me

H:37
W:37
M:10 years
D:7&5
Bomb:9/7/12. H moves out
H moved back 12/23/12-not going well
Retrouvaille 1/18
H moving out again 3/14