This text exchange just happened as I was replying to y'all's post.
Please give me y'all's opinion of how I handled it.

W: does he want to chat?

M: He's ok. Just call him to tell him night later on.
Sorry for waking you up

W: No. I just wish a had a moment to wake up so I could have seen him

M: Maybe I should have waited longer for you to wake up. It's all good. I apologize, i do forget sometimes that this is really tough emotionally for you as well

M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it