Looking for a little advice and support

[cbtdad]

Thanks 25!
Yeah, I have definitely been GALing. I have too. She has even commented that, "at first I thought these changes were for me. Now I can see you are doing them for you"
There is no question I am becoming a better person with or without her. I am changing because of her, not for her.
I live at an apartment, so no I am not having to check in with her an things like that. But I have not been dating or hanging around OW or staying out late enough to be staying at anyone's house.
I am still alive, not dead. Lol
So I do go out with friends. Working out. A lot of church and reading.
But I now realize what's most important. Like I said I was so selfish. Not only to W, but also to S. I am spending a lot of quality time with him. And enjoying it so much.
My biggest problem I have right now is that I am not sure i want to be with W anymore. She is just so different than the person I married and loved.
But I don't want to bring these faults of mine into another relationship or into a possible reconciliation so I am doing my best to become a better all around person