My H is lost and, as FY said, looking for happiness in the wrong places. It's hard sometimes to stay centered and remain peaceful, especially when he comes up with what seem to be sleazy schemes. I think in his head, his behavior makes sense. I don't think he's learned anything during the past year, and still doesn't see his part in the breakdown of our M. I don't even think he sees his A as a big deal.
Dancing is definitely good for the soul. The class is called "Groove," and it's just a lot of fun. Simple steps to follow. They even have one of those disco balls in the middle of the room. There were all kinds of people taking it, from teens to seniors, man, women, everyone.
My H texted me this AM to say he was sorry that his email had upset me and that the tone of his emails doesn't come out the way he wants. I didn't think it was the tone, but the content of his message. He was even questioning how much money he had when we got married and if it was more than the money I had--which is not the case. He's treating me like I'm the one who cheated on him or betrayed him. There's some selective memory going on. He said he'll talk to a L and then talk to me. I agreed, but if he continues with the same attitude, I'll send him to my L.
