So glad you hear from you. I think of you (and your late w) often.
I couldn't be happier to hear about how you now realize your late w's death was NOT your fault. I'm happy about the new woman in your life too, although from your words it sounds as if you'd have been alright without a new woman too.
How are your boys doing these days? My dad's death was years ago, but I have to say that the death of a parent is sort of underrated. I still think of him often. But what can you do?
Like you said, either get busy living or get busy dying and you chose the first option. Do you feel like the boys are? What kinds of struggles have they had? Does counselling help them? School or sports?
Keep us posted Nine.
You have no idea the value of your journey to others, and I hope also, for you and your sons. I wish all the best for you and your boys.
Nine, you're a strong brave loving man.
((((( )))))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
