Tori, I am sorry your H is acting the way he is...although it does not really seem unusual at this point in time (not just for your H...I wouldn't be surprised of similar behavior from my H when the process starts...heck...I am starting not to get surprised by his craziness now).

You seem to be in such a good place...a higher ground if you will....that allows you to stay away from the crazy. Brilliant. Just observe and let the L take care of the rest.

And yes, continue to dance on!

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home