This is why many of us advised to let your L handle most of this. Why put yourself through unnecessary pain?
Your H is obviously searching for happiness in all the wrong places. When you married him things were different, he was different and so were you. Your love and connection was real. It was not a mistake. Don't ever forget that.
You've grown a lot, and have become a much better person. Continue to take the high road here. You will never regret it, and he will see this when he looks back some day. Don't confirm his decision to leave the M as a good one with poor reactions to his antics. Instead, show him only love and compassion. Allow him to realize that bailing on you was a major mistake on his part. Sadly for him, I can almost guarantee that at some point he will.
Originally Posted By: Tori
I have returned to a place of peace and love. I can get back to this state so much quicker than before! My goal is to avoid the negative energies altogether, instead of having to get out of them.
^^^ This!
I'm happy to hear you enjoyed your dance class and would love to hear more about it, as you know it's something I'd like to do once my GAL schedule opens.
Dance On!
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
