Yes, in more normal circumstances I would change my work schedule and not even think about it.
The coldness hurts. I was holding my girls this morning and W kissed them both said I love you to each one and looked at me and said bye. This isn't really anything different, it just hurts.
I know this feeling. It cuts deep. My W will say "my son" or "my daugther" to someone else with me standing there. All I can do is accept that is where she is at right now.
Hang in there Grizz. Accept that your W has things to work on and you focus on just your stuff. As I've seen so many times on this forum make yourself into the H only a fool would leave.