I also agree...choice 2 is being a supportive father for the girls too...what would be the alternative if you did not change your schedule and she still continued with her job...how would that affect you girls?
It is hard when they are so loving to the children, which we want, and then the LBS gets a 'bye' and sometimes H does not even look at me when he says it and it has an altogether different tone...stinks!
