I find I am struggling with the 180's because throughout our SSM h has felt unloved and rejection and when I am 180 by not giving him info as to where I am or what is going on in my life he is feeling more unloved and more rejection.


H:37
W:37
M:10 years
D:7&5
Bomb:9/7/12. H moves out
H moved back 12/23/12-not going well
Retrouvaille 1/18
H moving out again 3/14