I find I am struggling with the 180's because throughout our SSM h has felt unloved and rejection and when I am 180 by not giving him info as to where I am or what is going on in my life he is feeling more unloved and more rejection.
H:37 W:37 M:10 years D:7&5 Bomb:9/7/12. H moves out H moved back 12/23/12-not going well Retrouvaille 1/18 H moving out again 3/14