We have very similar situations. My h didnt work out if town, but worked a lot and i always felt like the single mother. Unfortunately, i don't really have advice as I am going through the same thing, just a few months ahead of you and I have made so many mistakes and essentially I am starting back at the beginning.

If anything continue reading, continue gal'ing.

H:37
W:37
M:10 years
D:7&5
Bomb:9/7/12. H moves out
H moved back 12/23/12-not going well
Retrouvaille 1/18
H moving out again 3/14